Signs it’s Time to Let Go
Here are ten signs it’s
time to let go:
1. Someone expects you to be
someone you’re not. – Don’t
change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you
are, than to keep them by being someone
you’re not. Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to
piece together a shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space
in your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space
inside yourself where YOU used to be.
2. A person’s actions don’t
match their words. –
Everybody deserves somebody who helps them look forward to tomorrow. If
someone has the opposite effect on you, because they are consistently
inconsistent and their actions don’t match up with their words, it’s time to
let them go. It’s always better to be alone than to be in bad
company. True friendship is a promise made in the heart – silent,
unwritten, unbreakable by distance, and unchangeable by time. Don’t
listen to what people say; watch what they do. Your true friends will
slowly reveal themselves over time.
3. You catch yourself forcing
someone to love you. – Let us
keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us. We should n’t beg
someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about –
freedom. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should
be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason,
but never leaves without a lesson. If someone truly loves you, they will
never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and
say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your
life and prove how much they love you. Sometimes it takes awhile to find
the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait. Read The Road Less
Traveled
.

4. An intimate relationship is
based strictly on physical attraction. – Being
beautiful is more than how many people you can get to look at you, or how
others perceive you at a single glance. It’s about what you live for. It’s about what defines you. It’s about the depth
of your heart, and what makes you unique. It’s about being who you are
and living out your life honestly. It’s about those little quirks that
make you, you. People who are only attracted to you because of your
pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever. But the people
who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.
5. Someone continuously breaks
your trust. – Love
means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.
When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get
one of two results - a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either way
there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person
cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and
make room for those who do. In the end you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s
true, and who would risk it all for you. And trust me, some people will
totally surprise you.
6. Someone continuously overlooks
your worth. – Know your
worth! When you give yourself to
someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll
never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop
chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a
way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact
that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave
your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on.
We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask
ourselves, “Why did n’t I do this sooner?”
7. You are never given a
chance to speak your mind. –
Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it.
Speak up for your heart so that you won’t have regrets. Life is not about
making others happy. Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness
with others.
8. You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness. – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in
your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know
it. Know when to close the account. It’s always better to be alone
with dignity than in a relationship that constantly requires you to sacrifice
your happiness and self-respect. Read Stumbling on
Happiness
.

9. You truly dislike your
current situation, routine, job, etc. – It’s
better to be a failure at something you love than to succeed at doing something
you hate. Don’t let someone who gave up on their dreams talk you out of
going after yours. The best thing you can do in life is follow your
heart. Take risks. Don’t just make the safe and easy choices
because you’re afraid of what might happen. If you do, nothing will ever
happen. Chances must be taken, mistakes must be made, and lessons must be
learned. It might be an uphill climb, but when you reach that mountaintop
it will be worth every ounce of blood, sweat and tears you put into it.
10. You catch yourself obsessing over, and living in, the past. – Eventually you will overcome the heartache, and forget the
reasons you cried, and who caused the pain. Eventually you will realize
that the secret to happiness and freedom is not about control or revenge, but
in letting things unfold naturally, and learning from your experiences over the
course of time. After all, what matters most is not the first, but the
final chapter of your life, which unveils the details of how well you wrote
your story. So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind
to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences. Read The Power of
Now
.

And the
one thing you should never let go of is hope. Remember what you deserve
and keep pushing forward. Someday all the pieces will come
together. Unimaginably good things will transpire in your life, even if
everything does n’t turn out exactly the way you had anticipated. And you
will look back at the times that have passed, smile, and ask yourself, “How did
I get through all of that?”
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